Self-Denial of the Christian



by Nick Bibile



The Three Enemies of the Christian

"If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me" (Mark 8:34).

Christians are faced with three relentless enemies: the world, Satan, and the flesh. Of these, sin is our most personal and constant adversary. Most times sin does not present itself as ugly, wicked, or devilish — it comes adorned in beauty, dressed in innocence, and offering great pleasure to the flesh. Sin approaches not as our worst enemy but as a friend, promising happiness, excitement, and delight.

"But each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death." (James 1:14–15)



Satan's Deception

Remember what Satan told Jesus when He was driven into the wilderness:

"Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 'All this I will give you,' he said, 'if you will bow down and worship me.'" (Matthew 4:8–9)

Satan is the great deceiver. He displays the delicacies of this world — the sweetness of worldly enjoyments, entertainment, amusements, pleasures, and materialism. He whispers to many: "It's fine to come to church. It's fine to read the Bible and pray — but do not meditate on Jesus constantly. Think of the world. Think of yourself. Those things matter more." In doing so, he subtly invites us to worship him above God.

"The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God." (2 Corinthians 4:4)

"Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour." (1 Peter 5:8)

Satan is called the prince of this world. Jesus Himself declared:

"I will not say much more to you, for the prince of this world is coming. He has no hold over me." (John 14:30)



You Cannot Serve Two Masters

We cannot worship and love two masters. Either we love Jesus, or we love the world — there is no middle ground.

"No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other." (Matthew 6:24)

"Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. For everything in the world — the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life — comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever." (1 John 2:15–17)

"You adulterous people, don't you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God." (James 4:4)



The War Within

We are born sinners, and the flesh within us is perpetually drawn toward sin. The Apostle Paul gave us a solemn warning:

"So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh." (Galatians 5:16)

"For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want." (Galatians 5:17)

There is a war being waged daily between the flesh and the Spirit. The Spirit calls us to grow in the Lord — to read and study His Word, to pray, to witness, and to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, and strength (Matthew 22:37). But the flesh opposes every one of these pursuits. It entices us to pursue the pleasures of this world and lures us deeper into sin. Temptations surround us on every side, and the more we pursue Christlikeness, the fiercer the opposition becomes.

"For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do — this I keep on doing." (Romans 7:19)

"What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!" (Romans 7:24–25)

"I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." (Galatians 2:20)



The Danger of Worldliness

Do we love the things of this world more than Christ Jesus? Are we giving more time and energy to our fleshly desires than to Jesus? When we are consumed by worldly pursuits, our hunger for Scripture fades, our desire to know Jesus grows cold, and He becomes nothing more than a one-hour weekly obligation — no longer woven into our lifestyle. When Jesus is marginalized, Satan gains a foothold.

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is — his good, pleasing and perfect will." (Romans 12:2)

"Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things." (Colossians 3:2)

"For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." (Ephesians 6:12)



Crucifying the Flesh

We must put these enemies to death daily. This is not a passive act — it is an ongoing, intentional spiritual discipline.

"Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires." (Galatians 5:24)

"Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry." (Colossians 3:5)

"Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires." (Romans 6:12)

We must say no to ungodliness and yes to godliness. This is the call of grace itself:

"For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say 'No' to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope — the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good." (Titus 2:11–14)



Stand Firm Through Prayer and Watchfulness

Jesus is coming for those who are His — those who obey Him, love Him, and follow Him. Soldiers on the battlefield never take their eyes off the enemy, knowing that the enemy strikes when you are least prepared. In the same way, Jesus commanded us:

"Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak." (Matthew 26:41)

"Pray continually." (1 Thessalonians 5:17)

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